Okay so my DH and I have been together for 3 years. In those 3 years we've had a baby and a lot of drama. Everything from him treating me like I'm his property, to him acting like he's cheating, to him accusing me of cheating, and it finally got physical one time. We're still together, but have separated more than once...what should I do? I know I'm not an easy person to get along with either, but nothing I've done has been to deserve this...I feel like in some way I should stick it out because I know he had a bad childhood and practically raised himself. But I'm afraid the same things are going to happen again and I just can't forgive and forget. He's promised me time and time again that he'll never let these things happen and so far they haven't but I can't stop thinking about it. What should I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:36 AM on Dec. 8, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by SuZQ55 at 5:57 AM on Dec. 8, 2008
Answer by Chrissy629 at 6:13 AM on Dec. 8, 2008
Answer by Bmat at 7:35 AM on Dec. 8, 2008
Answer by honeys_sugamama at 9:52 AM on Dec. 8, 2008
If you have to ask others what you should do...I believe you already know what to do. I am an on line life coach so I guess its fair for me to say this. People are going to treat you the way you allow them to. Who has not had a dysfunctional childhood? You can offer him your concerns but his behavior will not be receptive b/c he talks down on you already which tells me he is not sincere yet. He already proved that from times you did leave him and there had not been any change. He will continue to behave this way b/c of his childhood "learned behavior". You must ask yourself if you want your children to grow up like him...If you stay they will. Learned behavior..
Answer by MamaGuru at 10:07 AM on Dec. 8, 2008
Answer by munch12502 at 11:06 AM on Dec. 8, 2008
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