Dh has always been a big football fan.....I knew that well when I married him - 13 years ago. We have three girls. He works full time. We own a business as well, that I run from the home office so I can SAH with the girls.
Lately, he has had the opportunity to go out of town with guy friends to football games.....I try not to say anything negative because I feel if I do I always become tha bad guy. However, I have never had an extended break from home responsibilities or children.
Now, even when home he is obsessed with watching football on TV. Espn is his life from dawn to dusk. He is more focused on that than with the kids. Even after being gone for a couple of days - he is watching sportcenter round the clock. Last night he was ugly snappy with the kids and I for leaving a hat at Subway...he said some ugly things to them about how they always get things wrong.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:46 AM on Dec. 8, 2008 in Relationships
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I have been married for 24 years with 5 kids. DH loves hunting. Did not establish this until 6 years ago. He got carried away with it. Instead of telling him this or that b/c men cannot respond that way. I SHOWED him something different he HAD NOT seen in me. I started leaving the house and got all dolled up. Not hoochie dolled up but when he WAS home I told him to watch the kids I AM GOING OUT. This was not his familiar. I went to the book store and listened to tapes, went to go eat with a friend WHATEVER. Just to show him if he had something then I can..
Answer by MamaGuru at 9:59 AM on Dec. 8, 2008
CONTINUE....He didnt mind it at first but sooner or later it started bothering him. Enough that he had to question ME...He stared SEEING for himself their was no balance that he started asking me to go out...At that time I tld him how he made me feel and now we did establish ome balance...
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