Morgan (15mo dd) loves her dad, when he's with her she is so happy and he's good with her, when he's not around she always asking for daddy! daddy!.
Me and him were best friends for years and together for about a year and a half before getting pregnant (unplanned). He has just turned 20 by the way.
Things got rocky in dec when I found out he had been cheating, he doesn't give me any money regularly (nor has he ever) to help me with Morgan and infact he owes me £400 since before dec. He has been seeing Morgan often since we broke up and sometimes takes her to his (mums) house for a few hours.
So I am obviously pissed that he thinks its ok to not support her financially at all, he doesn't buy her anything either rather than give me the money. Yesterday, I find out that he owes some dealer £300, I find out that he's been selling stuff too (weed) (so what/who has he been spending the money on??), but here's what I am super pissed about - the dealer (who know's an old friend of mine and contacted her since he couldn't get hold of him) told my friend today that it's out of his hands now, and that she (friend) better tell me that these other guys might come to my house about it!! Fortunately i've moved recently and they would only possibly know my old address.
Of course now I wan't to tell dds dad to totally distance himself from us in order to protect my daughter from this bs. Like I said she loves her daddy, when is the time to give him another chance if I stop letting him be around us? What do I wait for him to do? How do I know he's changed if we won't be seeing him? How do I deal with the fact dd will miss him like crazy? :( :(
Asked by Anonymous at 7:03 AM on May. 24, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by rosiemendo at 7:22 AM on May. 24, 2011
Well, sounds like you don't have much of a choice, considering safety is a major issue! it's unfortunate for your daughter but he needs to get his life together. He's jeopardizing your two's lives, There would be NO contact whats so ever until he fixes the situation. Maybe his daughter will be reason enough to get out of the crap he's in! Granted she will miss him but at least she will be safe!
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