Oddly enough, in our case the conversation happened eight minutes after we got hitched down at the courthouse, over club sandwiches down at the IHOP. We did not ever formally date, we were BFF until one day out of the blue he hands me a ring and pops the question and half an hour later, Married City. But we did have the conversation you described. We basically agreed on being equal partners and to never hold things back from discussion, to always give the other one an even break and to remember to laugh about things we'd probably rather cry about. And we've done that, for the most part, nobody's perfect!
at 12:41 PM on May. 24, 2011