DH has always been a blue collar man and in his field was always able to text or call me at-will; which he's done constantly for 5 straight years now. No joke, in our time together we may have hit the triple-trillion mark for texts and calls. All day every day, multiple times an hour - even if it were just those 3 little words... "what's for dinner" LOL j/k Anyhow, he recently got a promotion - YAY! He's so happy, and I'm so happy for him. This promotion has moved him into the office - so no more field work - but all things come with a sacrifice, right.
We're 2 weeks into the promotion - and we're finding (I'm finding) that he's so busy with meet-n-greets, sales meetings, paperwork, computer-work, leg-work, phone-work, etc , that now I go hours without hearing from him. Yeah, I know, boo-hoo cry me a river - but I'm not saying "pity me" - I'm just now having to face this after being so spoiled with constant communication and an open line to him 24/7 - just trying to adjust.
I will get used to this right? We're also living 8 hours apart right now because there is no housing where he is, and we can't move me there until we find a house.
Maybe it's just the combination of it all?? Good grief I miss him. Boy there's a big difference between knowing he's coming home at the end of a long day (even if it's 24 hrs on) and knowing he's not - huh?
P.S. I never seen to know where to put questions like this ----- picking relationships just cuz it's about a change that we're going through and not necessarily about his job)
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