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2 Bumps

If you marry someone

who cheated on their ex-wife with you, had a porn addiction, and was verbally abusive...and you knew all this before you married the person. Don't expect a lot of sympathy from me.

I just don't get it. I know this lady who was the other woman and was proud of it. She also thought the porn addiction was because he ex couldn't satisfy him in bed and that she deserved to verbally abused.

Now there is another woman....he continues to be addicted to porn...and he calls her all kinds of crazy names.

So just FYI for anyone out there....if you know this stuff going into the marriage.....run away from the altar as fast as you can.

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Shaken1976

Asked by Shaken1976 at 2:59 PM on May. 24, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • I agree............run!!!!!!!!!!
    Dahis

    Answer by Dahis at 3:04 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • Yes!And it amazes me that any woman would even go near a guy like that!!!!
    minnesotanice

    Answer by minnesotanice at 3:06 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • Are you talking about my ex husband and his mistress? Sounds like what happened to her lol, then she wanted sympathy.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 3:09 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • Yeah. You aren't going to change the guy. A leopard doesn't change his stripes.
    Shaken1976

    Comment by Shaken1976 (original poster) at 3:09 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • Amen.
    pookiekins34

    Answer by pookiekins34 at 3:10 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • i agree
    ashes27165

    Answer by ashes27165 at 3:12 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • I would run the second I saw how he treated his wife.
    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 3:17 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • If he will cheat WITH you, you can bet he will cheat ON you - just a little bit of wisdom to carry with you!
    hootie826

    Answer by hootie826 at 4:14 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • Some women just think "I can change him", I guess...
    jmpj8107

    Answer by jmpj8107 at 4:24 PM on May. 24, 2011

  • yes, that is the power of denial
    elizabiza

    Answer by elizabiza at 5:01 PM on May. 24, 2011

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