So my ex is SUPPOSED to have our DD (4) this weekend. He only has daytime visitation so he should have sat from 1-5 and sun from 1-5. This was ordered to start March first and he lives 5 hours away so he gets this EOW. However, he had not shown up to EVEN ONE of his weekends, though he wanted to see her once when he came one MY weekend (I allowed it, just trying to keep the peace). He has come to town at least 3 times that I know of but chose not to see my dd, going out with his friends instead. Well on Friday, I called my ex to see if he was coming (he had said before he wasn't sure) but my DD was invited to a birthday party on Saturday and to go out on a friend's boat on Sunday after church. Of course I have to let these people know if we can make it or not before sat afternoon lol. Well he said he would let me know BY Monday "after work" I have this in a saved text message. Still haven't heard from him. At this point do you think it would be OK if I just go ahead with our plans since 1. I haven't heard from him by the time he said (and he was the one who set the deadline by saying "by Monday after work" and 2. he hasn't made a single on of his visits since it was ordered? I don't want to do anything that would get me in trouble in court but I would think the text msg he sent and my phone records that show he hasn't called or texted msged me would be enough to prove I wasn't doing anything wrong and that I reasonably thought he wouldn't be in town but I want to be sure or at least get some opinions on it. Honestly, I just don't think it is fair for my DD to give up two fun things this weekend when he doesn't even care enough to call.Answer Question
Answer by MaryMW at 4:40 PM on May. 24, 2011
Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 5:29 PM on May. 24, 2011
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