My Dh is a VERY jealous individual. We went to McDonalds once and this man was there with his little boy. The little boy and my children were playing together the entire time. When the man and his son were leaving I said bye to the man right in FRONT of my husband.. You know I gave him a casual smile and said bye.
Dh then sends me a text and says 'Thats fucked up! Karma is a bitch!" I looked at him.. and said.. "What?" He says "You were flirting with that man right in front of my face!" Ladies.. NONE of you know me.. and I am ANON on here.. and I can tell you.. I was NOT flirting with him! I told my Dh "You can fight by yourself because you are acting ridiculous!!"
Fast Forward... I have this BEST friend that I have known since I was 11 yrs old. I told my Dh about him, but it had been a LOOONG time since him and I had talked. I posted on my FB that I was deleting my page... My best friend sends me a messgae saying "Dont forget about me- your my twin, we have the same birthdays! Is your number still the same because you always change it" I write him back "LOL- 772334****- Just call me"
My Dh knows all my passwords, and I have NEVER changed it!! I knew he was checking my FB that day.. well I had a feeling.. and I was right! I went online and deleted the message bc I didnt want my Dh to get upset... Dh had already seen it..
He texts me "Who is Immanual" I said "Oh he is my best friend from elementary school.. (: Why" He writes back "Oh because you deleted the message he sent you"
All hell breaks loose! Manny text me THAT morning, and we had been texting back and forth.. Immediately following my dh seeing the message I texted Manny to tell him what was going on and how I could get out of this mess.. Bc OBVIOUSLY He is ONLY a good friend.. always has been there for me...
Anyways.. fast forward.. My Dh accuses me of trying to cheat on him.. NOT TRUE... and he still does.. I get that deleting texts from Manny didnt really make me look good at all.. and only I and Manny really know what kind of things we spoke about... but should he REALLY think I was trying to cheat on him with my long time friend?
I have already put the shoe on the other foot, and already realize I would think the same thing.. but my Dh was going to DIVORCE me over this! And mind you he called me a lying cheating whore! My best friend also lives in KY- while I live here in FL. I mean really? Its not fair he thinks this... Just let me know.. talking to a friend is NOT cheating.. is it??
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