I am recently divorced and by accident I found out my ex has a new woman who stays over night while my 4 yr old is there. He told my dad they go in daddys room to talk at night and that she is there for breakfast. I have a boyfriend with a 4 and 7 yr old and we do not feel it is appropriate at all fo me to spend the night when he has them.
I know I have no legal rights in the matter and my ex is an extreme jerk who does not think of our son's emotional well-being. Any suggestions, even for what to tell me son when he metions it?
I just want to add to this question that there are not hard feelings towards this woman. In fact I am very happy with my new relationship and was hoping my ex would meet someone to take the pressure off of me. My concern stems from the child psychologist that we went to see on how to proceed with this divorce for our son's best interest and from the Co-Parenting class we both took that highly discouraged overnight dates so soon for several psychological reasons for a child his age to have to deal with along with the trauma of divorce. What if she doesn't last and he loses yet another person in his life?
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