I was in a size 11 pants when I got pregnant with my son. I gained 42 pounds with him. Now almost 6 yrs later I am a size 16. Since I had him, He had horrific colic, His father always worked long hours, I had depression, I spent 3 yrs getting a degree, I had a bad car accident and I just didn't have time to worry about my appearance. I am already having a hard time with feeling this big and now I hear people are concerned with us trying because of my weight. WTF? Isn't having a baby worth the weight gain? Isn't it MY issue? Am I that f-ing disgusting? I am NOT going to apologize for taking care of what I NEEDED to and NOT having the time or energy to work out!
I had a miscarriage and then Toxemia with my son. I have Polycystic ovaries. Really the weight can come off any time in the future. It's the least of my concerns. People just act like the weight gain will "ruin" me. My husband is totally pissed at all these ignorant bitches that are suppose to be my family. I guess they'd rather see me a size 4 than see me be happy. I know I have looked better and I'm bigger than I've ever been. I just don't see why it actually seems to bother everyone else more than it does me. I try to be healthy but am always on the go and I put myself last.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:26 PM on May. 25, 2011 in Trying to Conceive
Answer by Dahis at 2:29 PM on May. 25, 2011
Answer by ABeaverhausen at 2:27 PM on May. 25, 2011
a size 16 isn't that big, you can still get pregnant, maybe try taking a 15 minute walk everyday if you can. It will help you feel so much better! It will feel good to be outside with the fresh air and it will help you feel rejuvenated! Sorry your family is being so mean!
Answer by June_Mama09 at 2:31 PM on May. 25, 2011
Ignore them. I was a size 14 before I got pregnant and gained 40 lbs too. Even though I gained a lot I was still healthy and I had a vaginal good delivery! Both times I got pregnant it was the samething. The hard thing is trying to loose the weight back down to a size 14. I never want ot be any other size!! My husband is happy with me just the way I am too!
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