alright...so i was a cheerleader in high school with many friends. the girls that i was with on the squad were my closest friends. we were together in school and out of school. so...after we graduated high school (2000) we all kinda went our ways. one of my closest friend married an airforce pilot so she is constantly moving all over the country. we kept in contact through letters in the mail. and i constantly tried to keep in contact with her but one final letter had been returned to me "return to sender" because i guess she didnt live there anymore...she never forwarded any address. so thats kind of where we lost contact (that was in 2003). she was the only person from high school that i had kept in touch with. now fastforward...in the years past i have married and had 2 children...i have also gained QUITE A BIT of weight (like 90lbs) and i am VERY insecure and embarassed about it (seeing that i was 105lbs in high school). a few of my other girl friends from school have recently contacted me through facebook. and it turns out that my other girl friend (the airforce one) will be coming home for the whole summer. SO...i have tried to avoid all people from my past at all costs. i really am humiliated at my apearance. they want to all get together and i just dont know how i should do this...do i stear clear away and stay in my comfort zone? or do i suck it up and make set plans that have a guarentee of my discomfort with all this?
please dont bash, but i would like your kind and honest opinion.
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