But I was curious and asked if his ex wife had ever let him try "back door" sex. He's never touched me there or tried it with me but he once told me when we first started dating that he fantasized about it. So he went into this over descriptive story of how they tried it (and it was very erotic). I now have this terrible pornographic image in my head of them doing this. I had thought that he'd give me a simple yes-no answer because we never go into great detail about our pasts. It made me feel weird about the whole thing. He told me he never wants to actually do it because he thinks it is disgusting and that a fantasy is a fantasy. Yet he did it with her (didn't complete it because it hurt her). I've never done it and I don't know that I'd even like it. But now I feel he's been completely intimate with her. I can't get this out of my head and I don't feel like having sex with him now because of this. I feel jealous that his sex life with her was more wild and adventurous. I'm feeling so weirded out about it. I don't know how to deal with this.
** What I mean by intimate is that he's been more intimate with her as his wife than he is with me as his wife by having done this.Answer Question
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