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Is it weird that my boyfriend is thinking about paying me to keep his kids this summer while he works?

My mom has been telling me to get a job this summer and he needs somebody to watch his kids and it would be cheaper for him if i just watched them.

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Asked by jellybeansmama at 10:40 PM on May. 25, 2011 in Money & Work

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  • I think he should pay you. It is a lot of work and he would have to pay someone.....

    Answer by PsychicSherry at 10:42 PM on May. 25, 2011

  • I think it would be a great thing for you both.... Why not ?

    Answer by LeJane at 10:42 PM on May. 25, 2011

  • if you're not living with him (and he's working while you are a sahm) then yes he should pay you

    Answer by angevil53 at 10:45 PM on May. 25, 2011

  • Good deal. I would do it.

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 10:47 PM on May. 25, 2011

  • IMO...DON"T DO IT!!! Believe me, it will chance the dynamic of the relationship, NOT in a good way. Daycare with other children is what the children (and you) need. I really hope you'll say no, in a nice way, no hard feelings

    Answer by jblueeyes228 at 10:52 PM on May. 25, 2011

  • You risk going from GIRLFRIEND to EMPLOYEE. As long as you are prepared for it, then go for it.

    Answer by GoodyBrook at 10:54 PM on May. 25, 2011

  • If he is only your boyfriend I dont see why he shouldnt pay you.

    Answer by katiebug840204 at 9:15 AM on May. 26, 2011

  • Thanks for the replys. My mom told me that it would be weird that he would be paying me but I didn't really think so. We haven't decided if that is what we are going to do or not but we might. Thanks again everybody!

    Comment by jellybeansmama (original poster) at 1:40 AM on May. 27, 2011

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