When she was 17 years old this boy's mother asked if she could sleep over. I said "absolutely not"! Another time I called my daughter before 7 because I had to go to a meeting and told her I would pick her up from this boys house. Well when I left for my meeting this boys mother came and took her back over to his house. She cries when she can't see him and stays up all night talking to him on the phone. I told her father that he should step in and help me and he just says "she is 18 she can do what she wants"! I don't like the attitudes of every one around me, yet it seems all I am doing is making myself crazy trying to stop them. My daughter has her own car now and she stays there over night. Any suggestions or help from anyone!!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 11:06 PM on May. 25, 2011 in Adult Children (18+)
Answer by jblueeyes228 at 11:23 PM on May. 25, 2011
Answer by kysmom091 at 11:09 PM on May. 25, 2011
Answer by emmyandlisa at 11:16 PM on May. 25, 2011
I really wish i had the Magic Answer for you but, i don't think there is one- as bad as you hate to hear it, there is not alot you can do- you are going to have to step back & let her figure things out on her own; no matter what the outcome is- b/c if you keep on like this you will just make her more determined to be with him- & she will also not feel like she can come to you with her problems- if he is not good for her, she will see the light- it might just take longer than you want it to.. Wishing you lots of luck!
Answer by daisyb at 11:19 PM on May. 25, 2011
Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 11:23 PM on May. 25, 2011
Answer by bcauseimthemom at 11:35 PM on May. 25, 2011
Answer by GomezMami2908 at 11:18 PM on May. 25, 2011