I guess it depends on the age of the children and how they are coping with the divorce. For me if I was in that situation it would not be something I would rush into doing at all, you have to put the children first in the aftermath of divorce, its just a hard time for them and they are very fragile, the last thing I would want to do is introduce a new person onto the scene in a close time frame to a divorce. For me a new relationship is something I would keep separate from my children until I was very comfortable with the way they were handling things and comfortable knowing the relationship was serious- i ahve seen to much heart ache caused for children of divorce with parents bringing in other partners, lots of different people they are just dating and not very serious about around their children, it does alot of damage- not saying this is your case but its just something to think about, godo luck with your decision.
at 3:46 AM on May. 26, 2011