My brother had a bachelor party last weekend in Miami- and ended up cheating on his fiance (not sex, but enough to consider it cheating). YES, that was wrong, I'm not denying that, BUT she is now running around saying he was an abuser. Mind you- I've been saying how she emotionally and psychologically has abused him for YEARS!!!! She's a psycho. Her parents and brothers are all cops, and they managed to get a restraining order on false allegations. My brother has NEVER done anything to her. I was a former victim and went through everything including the trial- I experienced real DV for three years and am beyond infuriated she is using the system for her benefit.
Her and her sister are putting up ridiculous things on facebook. The only reason I have yet to delete them is that any and everything will be taken into consideration for evidence. That being said, I just posted up an article (on facebook) about women who lie about domestic violence. Sure, probably imature, but also nothing I think that can be used against me or him (unlike her changing her fb status and posting pix supposively after being at the police station crying).
So what do I do??? Am I supposed to really not do and/or say anything? Obviously I'd love to call her and cuss her out (if I didn't live across the country f/ her, I'd go and beat the s*** out of her), but I'm not going to do any of that since this is leading up to a trial. EVERYONE besides her and her family knows he's innocent. HE even called the cops on her long before she did (the same day) b/c she was going nuts and he wanted a witness while he gathered his belongings. Now she's claiming he was abusive before the cops got there, but she didn't even come up with these charges until after a steak dinner with her brother- a cop.
It's all bogus and I'm so upset. Any and all advice would be great but I swear, I have no energy for bashing- thanks.
Answer by gemgem at 11:28 AM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by yesmaam at 11:33 AM on May. 26, 2011
its also harassment...the facebook crap. Although I want to say just ignore facebook, it causes sooo many unnecessary problems that can be easily avoided.
Answer by yesmaam at 11:35 AM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by pookiekins34 at 11:39 AM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by alphamom26 at 12:16 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by emmyandlisa at 1:23 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by lucky35 at 1:26 PM on May. 26, 2011
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