I just found out by my sister that my mil has told my ex neighbor who is early 20s ( mil is training neighbor at job) that a few yrs ago my hubby cheated on me. Yes, he cheated on me and yes I've stayed with him. I know everyone has opinions about this, but you are not me. Anyways, I never told anyone about this except my sister (she caught them), my inlaws ( they had our daughter at the time I found out and they knew I was upset and told them ) It was private thing, I mean you don't go babbling that sort of thing to the whole world, you know?
I'm am so upset I can't see straight!! I haven't seen this neighbor in yrs and for my mil to tell her?!?! I just want to confront her about this and tell her to mind her own business!! My husband has no idea that she has done this and I think he would be upset about this. My sister told me to forget about it, but I can't! She told me not to tell hubby or mil. I DO NOT TRUST my mil at all!! My mom moved out of state and really hasn't been there for me, so I always went to mil to confide in, now I want to rip her head off!! Do I tell hubby or not? Should I tell my mil how I feel? ( i will be civil ) Yes, it was yrs ago, but why still talk about it and to other people? Makes me wonder who else she has told. No one wonder my fil's family didn't want anything to do with them.
I just don't know what to do?? Should I say something to hubby or not? OR should I talk to mil about it and not let hubby involved?? I can't forget about it. Oh, my sis wants to bring it up to hubby next week before I do anything, she thinks he will not believe me and making things up. Someone, please help me!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:23 PM on May. 26, 2011 in Relationships
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