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Do you think youre one of the catty ones?

Ladies on here complain that there are rude women on here, do you feel you're judgemental?


Asked by sugamama3 at 1:44 PM on May. 26, 2011 in About CafeMom

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  • I'm totally judgemental, but I would never show it on here... if I don't like a post I don't reply. If I feel I can be of real help, I will. (but get me in a mall w/ my husband and listen to me whisper :)

    Answer by hollydaze1974 at 1:50 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • I think the hardest thing about online forums is not being able to hear someone speak. You know that saying "it's not WHAT you say, it's HOW you say it'? I think a lot of people speak their opinion as just making a statement and it gets interpreted as a personal attack. Granted, there are those on here who really are just rude and inconsiderate, but I don't think it's as many as we might think.

    Answer by DJsMommy610 at 1:50 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • I speak my mind, i try not to offend....but sometimes people do take offense when i speak my mind. I'm never directly rude to anyone, but people might not like my answer sometimes.....

    Answer by samurai_chica at 1:47 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • No, I don't think I am.

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 1:46 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • no

    Answer by elizabiza at 1:46 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • No

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 1:47 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • no, but I may occasionally give out tough love.

    Answer by jmpj8107 at 1:53 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • DJs mom, is correst with not what you say sometimes but how you say it
    and typing a few words and not convey the tone of answer

    sometimes i have been responded to a question and meant to be helpful, but was bashed
    other times i was trying to be sarcastic and was taken seriously
    depends on who is reading and what they are reading into it

    Answer by fiatpax at 2:05 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • I'm most likely viewed as one of the "catty ones" by some..

    However, that's okay with me I know what my intentions are behind what I write/share on here so if someone else chooses to interpret what I write in a different way that's on them and not me.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 4:57 PM on May. 26, 2011

  • Im very outspoken but i try not to offend others as well unless its plain common sense someone is lacking.

    Comment by sugamama3 (original poster) at 1:53 PM on May. 26, 2011