Okay so my dh was out of work for about 13 months because the dealership he worked at closed down due to the economy. The Chevy company in our state closed down several dealerships and unfortunately, his was one of them. Anyway, I babysit two little boys 2-3 days a week and stay home with our kids, and I ended up picking up a little part time job on top of it that brought in an extra $500 a month. I ended up paying for a lot of the bills for a while, because my dh's unemployment wasn't enough to cover as much like before. He finally got a good job 3 weeks ago, and is getting his first paycheck tomorrow. I went online yesterday and paid a couple bills. I told him about it when he got home and he FLIPPED out on me, got all mad, yelled at me and then went upstairs and slammed our door shut. He was being a complete jerk to me for a while and then finally apologized and said that he just feels like crap that he hadn't worked in so long and that he feels bad that he wasn't able to provide for us, so he was really upset when I went and paid a couple bills when I knew he was getting paid. He said I made him feel worthless and bad. He was still a jerk to me though. Should I try to be more understanding of how he's feeling, or was he completely in the wrong?
*In reference to a few of the questions..he doesn't want me paying any of the bills unless we're extra tight on money and he really needs the help, otherwise he wants the money I make to go into savings or to do things with the kids. He yelled at me and told me "DON'T EVER PAY ANOTHER BILL AGAIN!" He was overboard with that one lol.Answer Question
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