I dont want to go int oany detail, 1.I only know general stuff said 2. I'm just too annoyed to revist that thought.
Anywho, he got too comfy in our convo I guess.
Here's the thing, if any of my family or friends say something negative about my SO, and he has had some pretty f!@#ed up moments, 1. going to jail for assault 2. Disappearing for a week at a time for multiple occassions 3. Coming home high and drunk. THose are all things of the past, but there were things for people to say, and I would know friends and fam, were like "what a winner" sarcastically, or they had just dissappointment written all over their faces, but I would never engage in a negative convo about him. I wouldn't let anyone talk shitty about him to me, THose would be fighting words.
But here's what happened. So He would be very flakey with me when it came to watching our son. I was approaching finals week, some of my grades were iffy because he already flaked numerous times before. I think I had like 15absences in my calculus class, and Im so lucky my teacher had a son my sons age, because he felt my pain about the man situation. Anyway. So I had to be in class. He flaked way too many times, and I missed a bunch of class and was late to work many times because I would have to have my HIgh school sister watch my son and she would get out of school after my shift started already. Anyway
So I got fed up and just started showing up at his friends house at random times, he would be there everytime. So I would leave my son with him and just leave, no car seat, just a diaper bag so that I could go to school. SO say I had class at 10, I would show up at 9, an hour before expected just to make him watch our son. This is why they are talking crap.
So I gave him an ultimatum, he needs to find new friends or I am done.
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