I am a 36 y/o single mom who is desperate for some advice please!!! I met my current bf who is a 39 y/o single father on E Harmony 6 months ago. I have never met anyone ever that I have been so completely compatible with,the chemistry,friendship,things in common, all of it is there. So here is the problem: I have had several issues with him that are making me question his motive in this relationship,if he even looks at it as one... A few moonths ago during an arguement he told me that he had a date with someone that he met on another dating website. That night he was no where to be found, wee chose to get back together and he said he was out with friends,and that was the end of it. Then, I found out that he also had been emailing someone from facebook and he was very flirty. I found out about this as well,and he just said she had lost a lot of weight and he deleted her. About a month ago he sent me a picture of an attractive woman and when we started talking again he said he googled her picture just to show me he could. Then 2 weeks ago someone on myspace emailed him saying how cute he was and that she wanted him to add her as a friend,he responded that he would but that hes always on facebook now. The last 2 things that I mentioned happened while we were together.He left his email open on my computer and I read emails that he sent the girl that he sent me the pic of. He also sent her a pic of him and his son at a recent field trip @ school and he also forwarded her a copy of his 'HIDDEN' profile. We are suppose to on vacation tomorrow with his 8 y/o and my 7 y/o. I feel completely sick to my stomach and lied to. I dont know how to find thhe strength to leave this man alone,as I really love him and am completely distraught over what I have found out. He told me earlier this week that he cant wait to introduce me to my soon to be "father in law". He is very good at manipulating me and turning things around. I know this is going to cause some unfavorable comments in his favor but this week he had an arguement and he put his hands under my jaw and I have a bruise on my jaw line. I also have 2 finger mark bruises in my arm as well. Please help me,I dont want to disappoint my daughter as we are suppose to be at the airport in the morning,but I do not trust him,I feel like I always find something and it will always be this way should I stay. On a final note,he ALWAYS says to me..."We are 2 hot looking ppl who can both find other ppl but it will never be this".....please,please tell me your thoughts! And thank you for your time.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:20 PM on May. 26, 2011 in Relationships
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