my ex husband was yelling at my daughter today while she was on the phone with me (she was telling me what happened at her 29 week appointment on monday,shes 18yrs old) heres what i heard
exH:who the fuck was in my house today?!
DD:Jorge(boyfriend,babies dad) is the only person thats been here all week
exH:why the fuck is my guitar moved then!?
DD:if you noticed i swept and mopped the floor i had to pick it up and put it on the couch
exH:bullshit! you never sweep around my guitar
DD:well if i didnt move it, it would have gotten wet and ruined what did you want me to do?
exH:oh shut up
DD:can you just yell at me later? im talking to my mom
exH:dont tell me what to do little girl!
DD:i dont yell at you when your on the phone do i? i dont yell at you at all....hang on mom let me talk to dad really quick
exH:who was in my house!?
DD:like i said Jorge has been the only one here...
exH:well where'd this black bag come from?!
DD:you bought it for me when i was 13....Jorge borrowed it last year and brought it back so the baby clothes wouldn't get wet on monday
exH:why was Jorge here today then?
DD:because i told him i was going to clean the kitchen and my bathroom and mop and sweep and he doesn't like me using the bleach because it makes me dizzy
exH:whatever, talk to your mom
i mean i can understand why he gets mad....his little girl is pregnant in his house,but she didn't get pregnant there she was living with her boyfriend and they lost their apartment due to the landlords being idiots,she found out she was pregnant right after she moved back into his house....and no the boyfriend doesn't live there he goes to visit though, he moved back into his parents house...plus she does almost everything in the house, she sweeps every week vacuums the rugs every 2 weeks and if she feels up to it she scrubs down the kitchen and dusts every little thing there, ugh the way he treats her makes me so mad...i sadly cant have her come live with me, i can barely make it through the whole month with just me and my brother living here
what would you have done if you heard that conversation between an ex and your child? because i really want to call him and say something to him
Asked by Anonymous at 8:04 PM on May. 26, 2011 in Parenting Debate
I'd stay out of it. If he's your ex I'm assuming you not on the best of terms to begin with. Also they are both adults, I'd let them figure it out.
Answer by skittles1108 at 8:06 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 8:08 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by lizlikeno1 at 8:09 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 8:10 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by Mikayla_lynn at 1:52 AM on May. 27, 2011
Answer by pookiekins34 at 9:25 AM on May. 27, 2011
Answer by AmaliaD at 10:02 AM on May. 27, 2011
Answer by daughteroftruth at 11:58 AM on May. 27, 2011
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