This is long. And I feel like I need to go on a damn talkshow. There are SEVERAL things going on. Ok, I'm getting married on Wednesday. I am 36 and this is my 2nd marriage. I've never had a party or anything. My work decided that they will throw a major party for me on Tuesday. BUT-they have not sent any inviations! Every time someone asks my boss about a party for me, she says "Yep, getting ready to send them within the hour." She's been saying that for a week. She is off tomorrow, Monday is a holiday and the party is supposed to be on Tuesday. So I guess I'm not getting a party. I feel like nobody cares enough to do it. I've done parties for them. And you guys might say "Well, family should be having the party." Let's see, I invited my dad to the party and he declined yesterday telling me that he didn't want to leave the dogs outside for 3 hours to attend my wedding. My mom told me that the ONLY reason my man is marrying me is so he can mess around with my 14 year old daughter. Let me tell you, my daughter loves my man and he is a wonderful guy. He would never dream of doing that. My mom is sick. My dad is a jerk. So they won't do shit for me. Then my daughter tells me that she is bisexual. That's not a huge things to me-I mean, I was kind of shocked but she's my kid and I love her 100% no matter what. I went on Cafe Mom to ask some questions and some chick straight up told me that my daughter is going straight to Hell for being bi. Can this week suck any harder? I just don't know what the hell to do. I'm going to bed.
Answer by Navywife2808 at 9:26 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by jmgblair10 at 9:21 PM on May. 26, 2011
Try to relax, maybe they secretly already sent the invites out! Maybe they wanted to surprise you! If your happy marrying this man then that's all that matters! Party or not, be happy your marrying a man that you love and loves you! As for you parents, well, you cant pick them and at least your not marrying them!!!!! :) As for your daughter, I think it's great you look at it like you do, there'sso many narrow minded/ judgemental idiots out there, loving your daughter no matter what is whats most important and it sounds like you do! Enjoy your wedding, BIG or small, don't sweat the small stuff and be happy, life's too short! Congrats!!
Answer by anichols1 at 9:30 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by Xynyth at 9:19 PM on May. 26, 2011
I hope tomorrow you feel better..
Answer by babysavy9 at 9:25 PM on May. 26, 2011
it will be okay
Answer by babygirl_18 at 9:37 PM on May. 26, 2011
Your daughter will not go to Hell! What an awful thing to say!
I hope your wedding day will be wonderful for you and your fiance.
Answer by Simplicity3 at 9:43 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by Heather021287 at 9:47 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 9:48 PM on May. 26, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 10:01 PM on May. 26, 2011
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