Im 7 weeks and 4 days pregnant with my second child. I have no job and am staying with my cousin and I started telling people that im pregnant after finally deciding to do wht i thought was best and keeping the baby. My bf is sometimes ok with it and sometimes not. his mom is upset but hasnt said much and my cousin might kick me out. and now all my bf can say is that we shouldnt have it. And that he told me. And that we r screwed. Y cant just one fucking person support me. I told my dad and he didnt care he just cared that I still talk to his dad that he hates and hung up on me for it. I feel so alone. no one seems to care how i think or feel about the situation. yeah its gonna be hard but it would be alot easier if people would stop telling me how dissapointed they r in me and how dumb i am. I really feel so alone not even my bf listens or supports me in this matter. he is too affraid of what his dad will say on sat when he tells him. and its not like its much worse than the first time I was only a junior in high school had no job and my dad got evicted 2 weeks after my son was born. How much harder could it get? I mean how is it more disappointing now than before? Im not a bad person im really not. I just dnt believe in killing a child for selfish reasons that everyone says i should. please help im so lost.Answer Question
Answer by Augusta at 9:48 PM on May. 26, 2011
I think your friends and family, may just need some time to "let it sink in!' Maybe it upsets them to see you struggle so bad and they know life's gonna be even harder once the baby gets here! Give them time, hopefully they will come around. Is it possible for you to get a job and or some sort of public assistance? I would think there would be some help out there for you since you already have a child. You could look into support groups for pregnant women. Best of luck to you!
Answer by anichols1 at 9:57 PM on May. 26, 2011
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Answer by Tarrar at 10:21 PM on May. 26, 2011
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