my ex was adopted, so he didn't find his bio mom until after we were divoreced - anyhow, I've never met them. My kids have never met them.
The kids "grandma" says she wants to keep in touch with the kids, ect.
I want to cut all ties to her. Her son, Kids father, has not seen or paid child support in over two years. I know, they know where he is and have contact with him. BUT when I've asked they tell me - he's a grown man, that's his business. If he doesn't choice to see his kids or pay child support.
I'm torn between what to do - My theory is that if they (kids grandma and Aunt) cared about my kids - they'd talk to the kids father about paying child support and being here for his kids.
AND knowing, that it's not their fault that my ex is a dead beat father.
How can they say they care and still cover for him,
How would you handle this?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:46 PM on May. 27, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by kathyartist2007 at 3:03 PM on May. 27, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 6:07 PM on May. 27, 2011
Answer by bcauseimthemom at 2:51 PM on May. 27, 2011
It's not your children's fault their father is a dead beat dad either. If your children's grandparents are good loving people I think it would be good for the kids to have more family to love them. Who knows maybe they will be your new support system. As long as the grand parents don't drop in and out of your children lives. Good luck to you!
Answer by mommiedear at 2:52 PM on May. 27, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 2:53 PM on May. 27, 2011
Answer by balagan_imma at 3:16 PM on May. 27, 2011
Answer by onethentwins at 3:57 PM on May. 27, 2011
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