I see him almost every day, but he thinks "quality time" is me sitting on his bed with our daughter, while he plays video games. When I try to hug him, he just stands there sometimes, and if he's on the computer when I want him to lay with me and cuddle, he will say I'm too needy and MAYBE lay with me for 3-5 minutes. We hardly ever talk about anything other than video games, and when I try and talk to him, he doesn't say anything back. Like today, he was playing around hitting me, and I eventually told him to stop, and he told me I was being whiny. I just want a loving relationship!
I love him so much, but the only time I think he cares about me is when we're being intimate with each other. I've talked to him about it, but he doesn't seem to understand. I don't know what to do to get through to him that this isn't good enough for me. Help?
Answer by PamJM at 10:11 PM on Dec. 8, 2008
have you tried playing the games with him I play with my SO and we have a blast and go to bed and have cuddle time we make it work good luck though
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