Believe me, it is hard. My BD broke up with me just three weeks after my youngest was born. Thankfully i had my mom, or i would have been completely out of luck. It is hard. It is especially hard if your child looks like him...but don't settle for him if he isnt good enough for you or you child.
for the longest time, i wanted to go back to BD, but then i realized that nothing had changed. it wont work just because i want it to.
my advice is: find a GREAT friend, and lean on them. i rekindled a friendship with a girl from high school and now we hang out EVERY weekend..because she knows at any moment i can fall back into his lies again.
at 3:34 AM on Dec. 9, 2008