Divorce...

no. we have been arguing more because his brother is marrying my best friend saturday and we are both in this fancy wedding and we are spending more on it than we did our own. But not thinking about divorce at all. if i was i would tell him though so that we could try to work through it

Yeap, but he knows too. We just do not get along. If it weren't for the current military orders at hand and his CoC refusing to send me and our daughter home early (we still have two years left here) then we would file and be done with it. But, we've even presented his company with the div papers and they STILL refused to send us home early. So here we sit, faking it, and waiting for our time to run out. We still find ourselves in the routine of playing house, but we're not intimate, we don't cuddle, and we still argue on an almost daily basis. We're so far done, but not legally... If that makes sense.