I was wondering what some of you would advise if this were your daughter. She just finished her first yr of college, is 19 and living at home of course for the summer. We have curfews and rules and she is abiding by them no problem. She wants to be a nurse and is working for the 2nd summer at a Assisted Living home in our community as a nursing assistant. This home is having major problems keeping help and is currently quite short of help. This summer is worse than ever. She is being scheduled for almost every week-end. She was willing to work 1st and 2nd shifts, but did not want the 3rd shift. Now she is being scheduled for the 3rd shift along with the other two. She is a very good worker and has gotten excellent reviews. She came home a bit ago and of course is working all week-end, however had Memorial Day off, now she is scheduled for Monday also. She is quite upset and depressed about it all. She has tried talking to the Director who says she will work on it, but so far nothing has changed, it has actually gotten worse.
If this were your daughter what would you advise her to do? She really needs to work and there are not many jobs in this area. On the other hand she does want to have some fun this summer. Most of her high school friends are loafers and partiers and they all have week-ends off. So she never sees them, which personally I am happy about, but a 19 yr old isn't too happy never spending time with her bf nor friends. Thoughts on if you would get involved, leave it totally up to her, let her quit? etc.....
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