We have been together 14 years and probably will never get married. I am not anti-marriage, and I get excited when I know other people are making that commitment to each other, but its just not something we have ever thought was a big deal. We aren't religious. We have been together since high school, we are each other's first and only, we have merged lives financially, have a home, have children, etc. I have never fantasized about my wedding like most girls do, and I don't feel like he hasn't committed to us, so I just don't care enough about the paperwork to go down and do it, I guess. LOL. Plus, I have seen marriage end terribly and don't feel that it offers me any additional protection.
at 7:30 PM on May. 28, 2011