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I have stayed almost week without talking to a married man on fb and I am so miserable. But I do not want to cause problems and do not want problems for myself.

Has anyone gone through this??


Asked by Anonymous at 9:00 PM on May. 28, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • its best to stay away from a married man, cause honestly its very rarely "just talking" if it was just talking you surely would not be miserable there is some emotional connection involved from you. If you are married its probably something lacking that you find in this man, or if your single why not find someone unattached to talk to. Bottom line is he is taken, its nothing but drama for the both of you, and honestly the truth of the matter is when his wife comes home and he quickly shuts the screen down from you, its not you he is thinking about and laying with.

    Answer by Princess_s21 at 9:37 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • Add me. I know what you are going through. Let's talk. I won't judge.

    Answer by Imogine at 9:06 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • PM me if you want, I know exactly what you are going through and hopefully can help

    Answer by cheyegirl82 at 10:09 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • Yes, this has happened to me...only not on Facebook but Myspace....I have to talk to you will appreciate my advise.

    Answer by babysavy9 at 9:11 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • I agree with's not just talking hun. You have an emotional connection to him. I feel for you, I really do! But, like you said, it's best not to cause problems for him and you really don't want his wife causing problems for you. You'll be even more miserable in the end if your friendship with him ends badly. Just tell him that you can't just be his friend anymore. Maybe someday in the future if circumstances change for the both of you, you'll find each other again. Good luck momma.

    Answer by jalvarez626 at 9:45 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • you have to end it...he is not going to leave his wife...good luck mama!!

    Answer by mkdirector2011 at 10:20 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • You are miserable because you want this married man? Just trying to clarify first. Thanks!

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 9:01 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • Someone to talk to no sex.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:02 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • Oh, well if his wife is the jealous type and he doesn't tell her he is talking to you, that might cause problems. I've never had that happen to me though.

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 9:03 PM on May. 28, 2011

  • why don't you talk to your husband instead of someone elses, clearly you have an issue if it is making u miserable.

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 9:28 PM on May. 28, 2011