Honestly, I have cheated before and it was an emotional, depressing struggle I was going through. It was not right and not fair. I had major issues in my relationship and he never made me feel loved (not that it was an excuse) but when I hit rock bottom like that and someone showed me the world and my own man didn't care about me I went with it.
I think if we would have communicated our feelings an errors in the relationship we maybe would have been able to salvage our relationship.
So with all that said, if you love eachother and you feel you can rekindle, forgive, and move on after time then talk about it calmly. Let him know you are hurting and maybe try counseling.
If you don't think you could ever really forgive him and you will be worried everytime he isn't in your sight then you might not want to put yourself through it.
at 2:12 AM on Dec. 9, 2008