Getting married in 3 days. Yesterday I went shopping for food and spend $300 (of my own money). SO got pissed at me and bitched that all I got was food for me and my daughter, nothing for him. My daughter is almost out of school for the summer and I stocked up on cereals and lunches for her for June. BUT I did get food he likes too. And what pisses me off is when he buys groceries he only spends $80, as opposed me my $300. So then he was going to take me to the movies last night. I was standing in the doorway waiting for him and he was like "Well get out of my way." so I went to the car. I don't disrespect him like that so why can he to me? Then of course at the movie theater we got into it. I pointed out that I had to buy Tide detergent, dishwasher tabs, dishsoap, fabric softener, and toiletpaper, 5 things he NEVER buys. He ALWAYS makes me pay for that shit because he's too cheap. Then I asked him what he's going to wear to the wedding. It's VERY casual. He showed me a suit and tie. I told him he couldn't wear that and what was he really gonna wear? He said "I'm going to wear a shirt that says 'I like big butts and I can not lie' with an arrow pointing to you." Then I got really mad. Then he was like "Oh, you know I'm kidding, you don't have a big butt." So then I asked again what he was really going to wear and he said "Oh, don't worry about it." Really? On the big ass day of my life and he won't even accommodate me on what he's going to wear? Plus, he plays golf and I'm totally cool with the fact that he has a hobby. But I can't afford to have a hobby because I have to buy most of the groceries if we want to eat. So while he was playing golf yesterday, I vacuumed, did dishes, laundry, cleaned, etc. I mean, he plays golf practically EVERY Saturday AND Sunday and I get to clean. Oh joy. I am on my period, is it just that or do I have the right to be upset?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:24 AM on May. 29, 2011 in Relationships
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