DH complains about the amount of time you spend on the computer yet when everyone is in bed he gets on the computer and is on it till 1-2 in the morning. But if you say anything he blows up and yells at you
he is only on here after the boys and I have gone to bed most of the time but last night he got on around 6 PM and was on here till 1:30 this morning(which makes me more suspicious then ever); but I have found in the past if I say anything that he throws it in my face that HE is the one that pays the bills and everything and HE can do whatever he pleases.
He even commented this morning that all he was going to do all day was lay on his a$$ and I almost said to him "and why would today be any different then any other day, you do this every day" but I didn't I just bite my tongue and said nothing.
Answer by gemgem at 12:13 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by momto4girzls at 12:15 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by alfa23 at 12:14 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by kimigogo at 12:36 PM on May. 29, 2011
I would have said it, I wouldn't have held back. I don't tolerate being yelled at because I'm not a child and I expect demand whatever my husband RESPECT me. I also wouldn't care about his computer use, we each have our own and what he does on his is up to him. That said however, I trust him. I'm sorry your husband treats you badly...you deserve to be treated well.
Answer by meooma at 1:40 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by tattooedmama126 at 3:42 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by popzaroo at 4:25 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by dusty1962 at 7:44 PM on May. 29, 2011
What would I say..... I would not tolerate it....
I would speak my mind over and over again if needed....
Sad to say but men are just plain stupid.
They don't realize how important they really are to a family dynamic.
Talk to him....tell him how his actions affect you and the family...
Men are like children...you know how sometimes you have to give the child a vegetable 50 times before they will try it...
Hopefully your hubby wakes up and realizes that family is a team, and he need to be a team player.
Answer by Dannee at 9:22 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by Autiziumom at 10:42 PM on May. 29, 2011
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