So today I had an argument with my mother, not sure if I am in the wrong though and if I have a right to be mad, so here goes I need a little advice.
So my son goes to his grandparents every weekend to visit, and they totally do not respect my parenting. My son is almost 5 years old. At night when he is there they let him sleep in their bed. I do not allow this at my home unless he is sick. Also they tell me my son doesn't like to go home because I have rules and that I shouldn't be so strict on him. When he is over all they do is feed him junk food and snacks and stay up until whatever time he chooses. I really feel like if they aren't going to respect my parenting and follow my rules then I feel like I should not send my son there. Also she tells me I am a bad parent because I am not parenting my son the way I was raised. They act like they are the best parents ever and that whatever I do is wrong.
Also I am pregnant and having a c section on Wednesday and she has taken the liberty to invite her friends up the day of the c section to see the baby. This I feel was totally a rude move. I told her I don't want anyone up the first day besides immediate family, because I am not going to feel good the day of surgery. Also I told her lets see how I feel, because nobody after major surgery feels good or really up for visitors. She started a huge fight with me over this. SO I am not sure if I am in the wrong. Advice would be helpful. =)
Answer by emmyandlisa at 6:13 PM on May. 29, 2011
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Answer by Esam at 6:21 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by tnm786 at 6:25 PM on May. 29, 2011