My family has always discluded me from things- family, events, birthday celebrations, etc. not so much as saying I can't come, but not acknowledging me of the happenings, and the fact that I communicated with them regularly (every 2 days or so) made it seem even more strange. So about a month ago I decided to stop trying all together, and when I stopped calling, that was it, I recieved not even a are you ok phone call from anyone. 3 weeks later my sister called me and and emailed me out of the blue. Ultimately I thought something was wrong since this is the only time anyone ever contacts me, but she'd said she had recieved an invitation from a friend who was taking her nephew to a birthday party and wanted my son to go along. I'm open minded and I never have tried to hinder my son's relationship with our family, so I told her fine, come and get him. Later on I find out, there was no birthday party, there was no invite, there was none of the above. My mom, dad, and sister wanted to go out and just wanted to take mt son along, but didn't want me to come. I thought this was rather rude but have yet to say anything to her about it, but more than anything, it hurts me that she lied to me. I've never kept my son from anyone, or said anything to anyone out the way. I have since come to a conclusion maybe I am causing myself more harm than good dealing with them, its obvious they want nothing to do with me. This is not the first time, mothers day, my birthday, every holiday or situation has always been like this. Should I just call it quits.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:52 PM on May. 29, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Jademom07 at 11:01 PM on May. 29, 2011
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 11:03 PM on May. 29, 2011
I would ignore them altogether for awhile. I am in a similar situation so I know where you are coming from.
Answer by momavanessa at 11:05 PM on May. 29, 2011
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Answer by cueballsmom at 11:18 PM on May. 29, 2011
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