Have you ever felt not worthy of a man?
I've known this guy for 20+ years, we've been friends but recently crossed the line of friendship into something more.
But I don't feel worthy of his love and attention. I feel if I lost a few pounds, took better care of myself. Did this or that - id become worthy of him.
Have you ever felt this way?
I want to be his everything, I want to be his one and only but I want to be my best for him. Right now, I'm not at my best and I feel I don't deserve him. He deserves better then I can give him.
So, what wrong with me?
I've secretly been in love with him for years and now, ... maybe, I'm just so wcared of a "relationship" not working out & losing him as a friend, losing him forever.
Answer by SelaCarsen at 10:35 AM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by RedDahlia82 at 10:15 AM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by StephMarie152 at 10:19 AM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by PrdMilWife at 11:15 AM on May. 30, 2011
You are valued as a human being w/ thoughts & feelings. You are not valued as less of a person if you aren't a size 3 or have flaws like the rest of us! You need to work on your self confidence to feel better about yourself so you can feel worthy enough to accept love from him or anyone else for that matter. (And remember- Marilyn Monroe was a size 14! We avg girls are not fat- we are voluptuous!) **Hugs**
Answer by mrsmom110 at 12:02 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by mememommie at 12:51 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 11:55 AM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by Autiziumom at 12:11 PM on May. 30, 2011