So... My breasts have been huge for the past 3 weeks or so, my body has been aching, I have been nauseous (but have not thrown up), I have had a head ache for the past few days that wont go away, the other day in a meeting my body got SO HOT I was having trouble focusing and sweated through my thick cotton shirt, and clinic coat (I never sweat very much). I am due for my period any day now and don't feel the excessive cramping and bloating I usually feel around this time, I have been mildly cramped and bloated on a daily basis but not like during or before I get my period. I have also been specie and my body has been tired. I am not sure if this has to do with anything but the last couple days my lips and skin have been dry for me, which is odd. I haven't taken a test yet, I wanted to wait until I see if I get my period or not. I am just super anxious...
I have an incredible boyfriend and we love each other and are very happy together; the only problem is we have completely opposing beliefs. He is a Pentecostal Christian and I don't believe in a lot of the things he does. (ie: i have strong feelings about Gay Rights and equality). I find the issue to be more with his family actually, they are very involved in his life and much less considerate of my feelings and views than my family are with theirs. (ie: they will make gay slurs in front of me, and in public, which makes me very uncomfortable and upset, its gods job to judge not my boyfriend's mothers). My boyfriend doesn’t say things that make me uncomfortable, he doesn’t really practice or go to church, most of the influence is just from his family.
I'm not sure what I am asking for maybe feed back, support, advise, maybe someone has gone through a similar situation? Its also a really bad time in my life to have a baby right now, I just started my dream job and I am really focused on my career right now. Not to mention my boyfriend is about to leave to another state for his cousin's Christian wedding, and will be surrounded by super deep Pentecostal Christians all week. So I will find out if I am pregnant or not alone, and he will come home in a extra Christian mind set. If anyone can help me out with some words of wisdom I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks you so much
Asked by Anonymous at 2:16 PM on May. 30, 2011 in Pregnancy
Answer by kimigogo at 2:23 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by ochsamom at 2:26 PM on May. 30, 2011
first off... test the morning of your missed period with the first pee. Secondly i TOTALLY understand what you are talking about when me and My SO got together it was a BIG issue for me i was raised Catholic and he hasn't attended church and doesn't really believe in the one God ect. i was very concerned on how we would raise a child.. we had ALOT of discussions and both decided that we would raise the child to understand what God is and ect but let the child make the ultimate decision. We are due in DEC. and super excited. I think you guys just need to decide what your going to do before the baby arrives Good Luck Mommy! and from the sounds of it your prego :D congrats :D
Answer by kylansmommy09 at 2:26 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by msmamakatie at 2:45 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 2:48 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by JacyB at 2:50 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by SamJ321 at 2:51 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by kimigogo at 3:47 PM on May. 30, 2011