My daughter is 3 and she is going to be 4 next month.. She is extremely shy and since septemeber she still has not said a word to them.
She loves the kids in the class and gers along with them real well and she speaks to them.
My daughter is a well behaved kid but in school I am told that she talks during story time and doing sit on the mat when its story time. I am also told day after day that she doesnt listen. I appreciate them letting me know, but now its to the point that they are complaining about her and its making her shy away even more.. Her afterschool teacher complains to her classroom teacher and she complains that she is fustrated with my daughter. She use to like my daughter in the beginning of theyear and now she just ignores my daughter and I see it. The other day when I brought her in (her afteerschool teacher is her before school teacher as well) the chairs were on the table and all the kids were taking them down because they like doing and she rushed ahead of my daughter so she wouldnt take on down. .my daughter immidately started crying. The other kids were saying, Mrs smith 'sally' is cryng and the teacher said 'why would sally be crying shes not a baby' and the kids said because you didnt let her have a turn to take down the chairs. I was horrified and took her out to console her. MY mother said its not a big deal but that hurt me and it still does.
With all this I am considering changing her school because its just a bad experience and the shy thing is only getting worse with the teachers badgering her. But next year she will not have the same teacher but I just have a bad vibe iin the school. My concern is the bond she made with the kids.
I first hand know how teachers can make school hell and can break you down. I was shy as a kid and I had a teacher that use to make fun of me and force me to say humilating things so kids can laugh at me (she was a nun) so I dont want any of that for my daughter.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:22 PM on May. 30, 2011 in Preschoolers (3-4)
Answer by BaileysMom476 at 10:29 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by GwenMB at 10:34 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by 2breath2live at 10:50 PM on May. 30, 2011