I don't! I want everyone to know my situation before hand so that if we needed help at all they knew what was going on.
I know women that are NOT high risk and never had any trouble of any kind and they are always the ones saying they won't tell anyone they're pregnant til a few months later "in case something happens." Whatever! They have no clue what it's like!
If I end up in the hospital, I don't want to have to catch everyone up on months of testing or appointments just so they understand the severity or know why I need to get to the hospital. Some women have been very very rude to me when my pregnancies didn't work. They don't deal with it to the degree that I do. I guess to them it's old gossip or something. To me, it's real and heartbreaking. I shouldn't have to keep it to myself.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:20 PM on May. 30, 2011 in Pregnancy
Answer by Jenni0409 at 1:11 PM on May. 31, 2011
Answer by klickitykat at 11:29 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by 3mclark at 11:27 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by Princess_s21 at 11:32 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by bdg27 at 11:33 PM on May. 30, 2011
I had a miscarriage in January and I noticed that a lot of women that miscarried around that time decided to wait to share the news when many of us became pregnant again around that time.
That is totally a personal choice but I decided NOT to wait and to tell everyone right away because my miscarriage was VERY hard to deal with. I hadn't told everyone that we were expecting yet, I had to tell family that I was but that it looked like I was going to lose the baby, and I have friends that do not know the worry and pain I still go through over my current pregnancy.
I got pregnant 8 weeks after my miscarriage and it looked like we were going to lose this baby too because once again my body was failing to make hormones in adequate quantities need to sustain a pregnancy BUT I KNEW that I needed and wanted the support of all of our friends and family if we were to lose yet another baby.
Everyone is different though.
Answer by alf2651 at 11:41 PM on May. 30, 2011
Answer by PhoenixsMommy10 at 12:03 AM on May. 31, 2011
Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 12:21 AM on May. 31, 2011