Monday morning I walk out and my hubby greets me with "goodmorning cupcake". cupcake was the first "original" pet name he gave me many years ago, not the normal hunny or babe. I always loved it, found it sweet and endearing. Well 4 years ago we hit a rough spot, I had an affair cause I thought he did...we were emotionally immature. Over the past 4 years we never fully reconciled this, just swept it under the rug and he never really called me cupcake anymore after that affair/hard spot which I always missed. We recently cleaned out our emotional closets so to say, full disclosure on everything and finally faced this issue of the affair and have been working through it and working through any issues our marriage had. This past memorial weekend was really good for us, just relaxed, happy, had some nice intimate time after the little one was sleeping where I put out lots of candles, had a "special outfit" he gave me a little "special attention" etc...so when I came out monday morning and he said "good morning cupcake" I wanted to go OMG OMG you called me cupcake!!
I felt like him calling me cupcake again like that on his own without me saying one word about that petname in so long was a big sign. It put me on cloud nine and I felt like maybe he is finally forgiving what happened, we are really moving past it now and not just ignoring it but really fixed it. Am I over reacting about him calling me cupcake again or would you also take it as a good sign as well?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:08 AM on May. 31, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by sugamama3 at 6:19 AM on May. 31, 2011
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Answer by youngmoma07 at 6:24 AM on May. 31, 2011
Just to be asking???How long have you two been together/married? It is a good sign. But do not take it as a total fix on your marriage. It takes more then a talk and a nice weekend to fix what happened in your marriage.
Answer by louise2 at 6:42 AM on May. 31, 2011
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