My SO was being all quite last night I asked him to tell me what was wrong...he said I really didn't want to now,but I told him to tell me anyways...He told me he feels like he doesn't belong here,like this isn't his life like he shouldn't have to struggle to support 2 families when he can just go back to his ex and be happy over there...but he's not happy over there when he was with her and he said that...he tried going back with her and it didn't work...and he is happy with me and he thinks it's just something he's going through,but he also told me some mornings he wakes up sooo happy to be with me and other mornings he wakes up and goes and cries in the closet...he wants his old life back...his family back...but he want to be with me and he's happy with me...he is friends with his ex...I think alot of the problem...it;s hard to let go when your still in each others lives...he left her btw...I'm just as confused as he is...I told him I know he goes over there and gets whatever he needs from her..they don;t have sex and they are not affectionate...but he gets his family need fulfilled and I'm okay with that...he doesn't have that with me and I give him tings she doesn't I joke and ask him how my sister wife is all the time...I'm fine with it things were good...he was spending some time there then coming home and things were fine...now he goes over there comes home and doesn't talk to me...he feel like he comes home to my kids when he should be going home to his...okay I understand it;s hard not being around your kids all the time...I just don;t know what to do...part of me would rather share him emotionally with her and have him when I need him and part of me is like WTF!! if you can't decide what you want let me decide for you and leave. again I'm as okay with sharing him as I can be things were good everyone was happy...until he decided he's not happy. I know most of you will say leave...but it's not that easy...think about it think about the man your in love with and think about how easy it would be to just walk away from it.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:19 AM on May. 31, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by dys-shattered at 8:26 AM on May. 31, 2011
Answer by robin2708 at 8:31 AM on May. 31, 2011
Sounds to me he will be going back to his EX. If I was in you position. I would tell him he needs to decide who he really want to be with quickly. Don't waist my time.
Answer by louise2 at 8:32 AM on May. 31, 2011
Answer by Kimedbs at 8:50 AM on May. 31, 2011
Answer by robin2708 at 8:51 AM on May. 31, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 9:11 AM on May. 31, 2011
Answer by Vix920 at 9:20 AM on May. 31, 2011
Answer by robin2708 at 9:39 AM on May. 31, 2011
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