im trying not to be upset about this, trying very very hard. but something about it just brings the past back and is giving me an anxious feeling in the pit of my stomach. my husband cheated on me emotionally about 3 years ago, we moved passed it and i haven't felt he's been unfaithful since. i didn't feel like i needed to look at the phone records, facebook or emails, i just had the gut feeling that i could trust him and by invading his privacy i only make myself look stupid. well the past few weeks my intuition is telling me something's up and i know we should always follow our gut feelings. so today i logged into his FB and sure enough he exchanged messages today with 2 different girls. one i remember from higshchool and the other i don't know her. nothing inappropriate was said, but i know the girl from highschool he used to casually screw. he told her he wants to hang out with her and asked if she still had his number. the other one, they ended the conversation the same way. exchanging numbers and talking about hanging out. for some reason that really raises red flags to me. i'm trying to view it as an innocent friendship but i'm not sure i would be comfortable with him hanging out with either of them, and i'm pretty sure he wouldn't tell me about it if he did. i don't know ladies, am i making too much out of nothing?
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