I recently posted that I had gone through my husband's phone and found dirty text messages between him and his ex fiance. He says he never has and never would actually act on it, that he will discontinue all communication with her, and the fact that she lives 1000 miles away from us makes me feel better knowing that it was in all likelihood just talk.
We have been married 10 years and are expecting our third child at any minute, so I don't want to just quit my marriage. BUT, I do NOT have any desire to have sex with him. I feel like he has been lusting after someone else, maybe pretending I'm her...I don't know. I just feel like I don't want his pervert hands on me after reading what I read in those messages.
What I used to find extremely comforting, loving, and "safe", has changed in my mind to something dirty and awful. I could get sick looking at the dates that he was talking to her and knowing that we had sex all through those weeks.
How do I get over not wanting him to touch me? I really do believe that he is sorry and embarrassed and "caught", but I really want nothing to do with sex with him.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:58 PM on May. 31, 2011 in Relationships
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