An old boyfriend of mine found me about 5 years ago.We have kept in contact through FB.3 years ago my husband divorced me,he felt we got married too young & wanted something different out of life.My friend helped me through this tough time in my life.In the meantime my ex & I moved back in together. Last summer I moved out for about a month but once again my ex & I wanted to try to work things out.We live together & all but seem more like roommates than partners.I took a HUGE chance & drove 2 hours away to meet my old boyfriend.We stayed in the same room & the same bed but nothing happened.I think we are still attracted to one another but since I am still living with my ex husband we didn't want to do something I might regret.The month after we saw each other he either texted me or messaged me every day.I was looking to move to his state & maybe start dating.All of a sudden he says that maybe we shouldn't be chatting until I decide for sure to leave my ex & start anew.So I cut all contact with my old boyfriend & started going to counseling with my ex.I told my ex about meeting up with my old boyfriend & he was distraught.I never knew he cared so much,i thought I had just became a room mate to him.He begged me to go to counseling with him.Things were great between us for awhile but now I can't stop thinking about my old boyfriend.I feel terrible but I wonder if he & I should have given it a go.We dated 25 years ago & there is still a very strong connection.My ex means alot to me also,he is the father of my 4 grown kids.But I want to be happy.I'm afraid that maybe I should be with my old boyfriend.Please help.
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