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If you were raped.... adult content

would you count that person as a sexual partner? I've had a problem with this for quite a while, I just don't know.

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scout_mom

Asked by scout_mom at 8:54 AM on Jun. 1, 2011 in Relationships

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  • There was no choice in the matter so no.
    pookiekins34

    Answer by pookiekins34 at 8:55 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • No, I wouldn't.
    attap5

    Answer by attap5 at 8:55 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • For health reasons, yes. However for emotional reasons, no.

    SAHMinIL2

    Answer by SAHMinIL2 at 8:57 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • No. A sexual partner is someone with whom you consent to have sex or get pleasure.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 8:57 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • Medical/technical, yes. If I were talking with someone I was dating, or keeping my personal "tab"...no. I have only ever been with my LP, but if I were raped, I would NOT let my rapist take my ability to say that away from me.
    Mom-2-3-Girlz

    Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 9:08 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • From a medical stand point, yes. You have to.

    From an emotional stand point, absolutely not. I've struggled with it for a long time and finally drawn the conclusion that, what happened was no something I signed up for. The bastard doesn't get to be counted among the very few who were worthy.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 9:17 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • I agree with the others- for myself, I would not count that, but for health reasons I would have to.
    lovingmy4babies

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 9:39 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • I say yes , even though that was a horrible thing but it did happen no way to go back on that.I am sorry to hear that and I hope you get through that trying time.Do not let him take your voice hun
    Brandy928

    Answer by Brandy928 at 10:03 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • No, I was and I do not count that as one of my partners. That is sick.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:36 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • No.
    AllAboutKeeley

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 10:38 AM on Jun. 1, 2011

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