My marriage is falling apart and no matter how hard I try, nothing makes a difference bc DH isn't trying with me. Obviously bc of this I've been unhappy, he told me I'm being a bitch and he can't take it anymore..I apologise and try to explain and he cuts me off saying "u dnt need to explain, just stop being a bitch."
I feel like giving up, I do all the things around the house, i work and have my own income (which I'm not "allowed" to spend,) I raise our ds by myself bc DH gets angry if i ask for help... But I love him so much that I don't know if i can just let go.
I cry every day, I try talking, explaining, understanding, compromising... In the end he always gets the upper hand and I give in.
It hadn't always been this way, our two yr marriage anniversary is next week, we've been together for almost six yrs. It all started when I found out I was pregnant with our DS who's 9 mo now. He wasn't a planned baby and we weren't exactly ready to become parents but to me thats not an excuese cause I made the changes and sacrifices I had to make for the sake of our DS and I guess I expected DH to get over himself and grow up... Not pout and act like a kid, playing video games instead of spending time with DS.
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