so it has just been him & my dad. My dad is not in good health at all and is 70 yrs old.
While I do not fault my brother for wanting to be happy. I also know the gal he wants to marry he has been with for 5 yrs & her kids are just damned rotten. None are his.
I am so sad for my dad who I think knows something is coming because he has started talking nursing home,no one in my family has EVER been in a nursing home & I really think this would be the end of him.
I guess what I am wanting to know is how do we keep my dad happy yet still have my brother happy. I have asked dad to live with my dh & dd but he doesn't want to do that & he will NOT live with my brother & his new family.
I am just so sad. It's hard being the oldest & going through all of this if my mom would of just stayed with my dad things wouldn't be like this but she calls him everyday but not her children but her ex.
Thanks for any words.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:58 PM on Jun. 1, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by MissKathleen297 at 6:03 PM on Jun. 1, 2011
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