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A pot question

If your husband worked hard, paid all bills, was a decent dad and husband, never went out with friends to party, is starting school to get his BA degree in August etc etc BUT he smoked pot daily or almost daily, would that be a deal breaker?
This is my situation. I hate the pot but I love our family as a unit. Thoughts?

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:03 PM on Jun. 1, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (30)
  • I don't agree with any type of drug usage.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:05 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • For me, no it would not.

    Answer by onethentwins at 9:05 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • YES..... if he refused to get help and quit, because it is illegal.... and I would NEVER take that chance with my kdis. IF we were, lets say in Canada, and it were legal then we would work on it like we would if he was an alcoholic. But i

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:05 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • No, it would not be a deal breaker.

    Answer by meooma at 9:05 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • It would be a deal breaker for me, personally.

    Answer by AAAMama at 9:06 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • We're in CA and it's legal with a medical card which he has.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:06 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • Deal breaker. Imo I don't want my kids thinking illegal drug use is ok.

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 9:06 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • I'd be okayw ith it if he was still productive and a great father and spouse. Around here, Nor California, Pot is normal. EVERYONE, or MOST EVRYONE smokes it recreatinally. I personally don't and neither does my SO but if he did it wouldn't be a deal breaker

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 9:07 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • I wouldn't be with someone that puts their need for drugs before the safety of his family. If he gets put in jail, you will have endangerment charges, and your kids will end up wards of the state. That doesn't make a decent Dad, or Husband to me.

    Answer by MrsLeftlane at 9:08 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

  • weed I don't mind as long as you don't do it around your children and can still function. My auntie smokes bcause she had breast cancer and it's the only way she can eat. If it was taking over his life then that is a different story.

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 9:08 PM on Jun. 1, 2011

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