I agree with 1st answer. Stay out of it. If you get involved, she'll only get mad and it'll make things worse. Let him deal with it, thru the courts, let him deal with her pettiness, her attitude and you just be supportive of him. Agree with everything he says about her, if you want, privately. Otherwise, stay out of it, be nice to the kids, don't talk about their mom with them. It sucks when you want to say something about the crappy way someone is acting, but this is one of those times you have to just bite your tongue.
at 3:30 PM on Dec. 9, 2008